“When we look at the ocean, we see that each wave has a
beginning and an end. A wave can be compared with other
waves, and we can call it more or less beautiful, higher or
lower, longer lasting or less long lasting. But if we look more
deeply, we see that a wave is made of water. While living the
life of a wave, it also lives the life of water. It would be sad if
the wave did not know that it is water. It would think; Some
day, I will have to die. This period of time is my life span, and
when I arrive at the shore, I will return to nonbeing. These
notions will cause the wave fear and anguish. We have to help
it remove the notions of self, person, living being, and life
span if we want the wave to be free and happy.” (The Heart of
the Buddha’s Teaching, 124.)